All Your Perfects by Colleen Hoover - #discussayp

  1. Do you think without opening the box their marriage could have survived?Submitted by Joanna G

  2. For me this book reminded me to not take my husband for granted even when I am down. Did this book make you appreciate your relationship and give your husband an extra hug?Submitted by Joanna G

  3. Would you have forgiven Graham for the kiss?Submitted by Joanna G

  4. Page 31, "I feel weak for needing to grieve since no one has died. It doesn't make sense that I grieve so much for those who never even existed. Do you understand Quinn in this situation? Submitted by Britt B

  5. How did you feel about the reason behind the title being revealed so early in the book? Submitted by Olivia D

  6. What did you think of the letters?Submitted by Sue S

  7. When I re-read AYP Graham was so clearly the same person in both the 'Now' and 'Then' chapters where Quinn seems to be two very different characters, I get to know. Did you experience that too? What differences in the two characters did you see, if any?Submitted by Britt B

  8. What was your favorite part of Graham and Quinn's first meeting in the hallway outside of Ethan's apartment?Submitted by Chrissy B

  9. On page 22, Quinn thinks about how much she is pretending. "I pretend I don't hear him when my name drips from his lips in the dark. I pretend to be busy when he walks toward me, I pretend to be sick when I feel fine. I pretend to to accidentally lock the door when I'm in the shower. I pretend to be happy when I'm breathing." For me this reminded me of how I felt towards the end of my marriage. Can anyone else relate?  Submitted by Chrissy B

  10. Do you prefer the 'Then' chapters over the 'Now' - or vice versa. Why? Submitted by Britt B

  11. What did you like about Graham? What did you love about him? Submitted by Britt B

  12. Do you think the title was a good fit? Are there any other titles you would have considered? If so, what would you consider titling this book? Submitted by Olivia D

  13. Quinn greets Graham by sitting on the counter with the anticipation of having sex. In the midst of their love making, Quinn tell Graham, “It’s ok. You can finish” and proceeds to tell him that she is ovulating. After convincing Graham to return to1. Quinn greets Graham by sitting on the counter with the anticipation of having sex. In the midst of their love making, Quinn tell Graham, “It’s ok. You can finish” and proceeds to tell him that she is ovulating. After convincing Graham to return to bed he finishes on her instead of inside of her. Why do you think he did this? What were your thoughts?Submited by Cindi S and Chrissy B

  14. What mistakes did Quinn make? What mistakes did Graham make? When was your sympathy with each one?  Submitted by Britt B

  15. What did you think of Quinn's mother? I believe her character in the end helps Quinn to come to terms with the fact that she can't have children? Do you agree? Submitted by Britt Bøgesvang B and Chrissy B

  16. What role does Ava play in Quinn's life? Submitted by Britt B

  17. What were your thoughts on how Graham handled the phone call from Sasha in the bar and the photo of Quinn and Ethan in Quinn's apartment? Submitted by Chrissy B

  18. Graham makes a habit of asking Quinn what he missed while she was sleeping, followed by Quinn telling him her dreams. I thought this was a sweet and cute habit to have. What are your cute habits or inside jokes with your significant other? Submitted by Chrissy B

  19. Let's talk about those two weasels Ethan and Sasha. I don't know that I could've handled it the way Quinn and Graham did. What do you think you're reaction would have been? Submitted by Mindy I

  20. How would you have felt when you opened the box and realized he added letters to the box every time things were rough? It was such a sweet sentiment, but I would have been upset I didn't think of it first. Submitted by Michelle M

  21. Were there times that you felt like Quinn was selfish? How about Graham? If so, when and how? Submitted by Cindi S

  22. When Graham comes home drunk, he makes a comment that was truthful, but uncalled for in the moment and could have been worded better. Quinn ends up crying in the shower and he is there for her when she comes out, and holds her. While I understand how his comment hurt her, this moment frustrated me with Quinn. Why does she think she is going through this alone? Submitted by Chrissy B

  23. Page 105 "My husband's heart is my saving grace, but his physical touch has become my enemy." Did you understand Quinn in this situation? Why or why not? Submitted by Britt B

  24. How did you feel when you realized that Graham didn't open his letter when Quinn read hers? Submitted by Chrissy B

  25. Graham comes home from his sister's place and asked, he says, he didn't hold the baby. Quinn was there and saw it. She left the gift, which Graham saw. But she says she wasn't there. They both know the other one is lying. But they don't confront each other. 'We resume the dance.' What did you think of them right there?Submitted by Britt B

  26. Did you at any time think of ending the book with a pregnancy for Quinn and Graham?? I myself was torn that didn’t happen for them, but then I realized it’s what set this story apart from so many. You didn’t give us this perfect ending, and I loved tDid you at any time think of ending the book with a pregnancy for Quinn and Graham?? I myself was torn that didn’t happen for them, but then I realized it’s what set this story apart from so many. You didn’t give us this perfect ending, and I loved that in the end.  Submitted by Melanie C

  27. The first night Graham and Quinn spend together they talk and sleep. He is the one that vetoes sex. How would you react to that? Submitted by Chrissy B

  28. ** Possible Spoiler for Finding Cinderella**When we learn about Ava becoming a teacher in Italy, and that she has Six as her student, did you think that it is Graham and Quinn who adopt Daniel and Six’s son?Submitted by Jessica M

  29. What do you think Quinn wrote in her letter to Graham?Submitted by Britt B

  30. What did you think was in the box?
    I read in a post made by Colleen, that her mother gave Colleen's sister,Lin, and her husband a box at their wedding, and asked them to write letters to each other. Do you have any traditions or ideas like this?  Submitted by Britt B,  Chrissy B, and Michelle M

  31. What moments hurt you the most? Why?Submitted by Britt B

  32. What was you favorite quote from the book?  Submitted by Chrissy B

  33. What moments made you laugh?Submitted by Britt B

  34. In chapter 10, Quinn thinks about the way she is different with Graham in the presence of others versus them being alone. This was something I had a hard time understanding or relating to. Can anyone relate to this? Shed some light? Submitted by Chrissy B

  35. Let's talk about the bedroom for a minute. In Chapter 6, Quinn thinks about how consistent Graham is in everything he does, except the bedroom. She thinks about how that used to excite her, not knowing what to expect in the bedroom. Would you like a guy like that? Submitted Chrissy B

  36. Did you opinion of Graham ever change or waver as their relationship progressed? Submitted by Chrissy B

  37. Page 188 'We are what our circumstances turn us into.' Do you agree? Why? Why not? Submitted by Britt B

  38.  In the last letter, Graham is willing to give up his own happiness for Quinn's. Could you give up your own happiness for someone you loved if it made them happy? Submitted by Britt B

  39. The box contained love letters. Do you believe such letters could be marriage-saving? Have you ever written a love letter, and if yes, will you share with us to whom? Submitted by Britt B

  40. Page 61 "Sometimes two people meet and none of the surface-level stuff matters because they see past all that...I knew everything I needed to know the first night I met you. Nothing external could ever influence my opinion of you." Do you believe this is true to be possible? Submitted by Britt B

  41. Quinn knows the exact moment she fell in love with Graham. Do you know the exact moment you fell in love? Submitted by Britt B

  42. Post a link to music that you think is perfect for AYP. If a song fits a special scene, tell us what scene in is. Submitted by Britt B

  43. What is your overall rating?? Stars?? Good, bad or ugly?? Submitted by Nicole K

REVIEWS
Britt Bøgesvang Basse All the starts in the world. I loved every word of it. It healed me. It made me forgive my self. It made me love my life even more. I learned so much. If only Colleen could grasp the amount of lives she changes.
Carissa Raddatz 4 stars, it didnt give me an ugly cry, but overall very different read of Colleens

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